Back when Homo Erectus and Neanderthals roamed the earth, none had the luxury of modern inventions like the telephones or email. There was no long distance interaction to speak of. Communications were largely confined to the limited spaces of the air around them. Language use was probably rudimentary and primitive. However, with the passing of time, coupled with the enormous brain of our ancient ancestors, the modern human beings have evolved. Lo and behold, people are communicating more than ever.
Simple as it may be, communications is an essential part of our daily lives. The moment we speak, whatever we say is interpreted and inferred by the receiver. How successful the intended message is deciphered, really depends on the choice of words, the tone, and the body language.
Communicating is easy, communicating effectively is not.
Technology seeks to bridge the geological divide between people, allowing convenient communications via email, instant messaging and even video conferencing. What people rarely notice is the decline of actual human to human interactions that binds families and sustains relationships. Therefore, it is imperative for us to make any form of real human communications to be effective, impactful, and serve the desired purposes.
Being in university is certainly one platform for inter-personal communications to burgeon. This is where bonds are forged for life, and where one’s ability to share knowledge is of the utmost importance. Every now and then, we would be challenged to make a presentation in front of an intimidating audience. This calls for steely confidence that produces the smooth flowing presentation everyone yearns to give. Confidence is important, but am I able to bring my message across to everyone in the room? Being clear and concise is often the key to keeping the audience on their toes and knowing what the idea of the presentation is. This is where fine communications come into play.
Also, in today’s highly connected world, people from all over the globe come together and work together. Being an excellent communicator helps to break the ice amongst the group, and dissipate potential rifts that may occur due to racial and religious differences. Take one interesting example, the recent attention towards McDonald’s Singapore Doraemon soft toys clearly shows that the management staff did not perform its job well. Being sensitive, in this case, towards the Muslims and thereby removing the pig toy from the entire Chinese Zodiac Doraemon collection, resulted in a fairly large hoo-ha amongst the Chinese. If the management bothered to communicate with both the Malays and Chinese, it would realize that their concerns are largely uncalled for. An amicable result could be implemented instead. McDonald’s eventually buckled to public opinions and is offering the toy for sale now.
This example clearly depicts how effective communications is important not only to myself, but to society as a whole. Teamwork is where a group of people work as a team, literally.
Teamwork actually involves a great deal of effective communications too.
Project discussions, for example, require us to be well equipped with the ability to share ideas, debate, conduct evaluations and so on. It is an uphill task to perform, juggling differing cultural backgrounds and personalities, and at the same time to prevent any conflicts within the teammates. Some thoughts would inevitably come to mind: Would I be able to overcome these obstacles? Would I be able to steer my group towards the goal and within the tight deadlines we have to adhere to?
Having great teamwork is already half the battle won. We do not want to waste valuable time solving conflicts within the team itself, in the working world, this would mean diminishing productivity, and in turn, loss in revenue for the company. That is why, picking good teammates is crucial. It is also of essence to note that having an “all star team” does not necessarily equate to success. I would not want to be in such a case, as often, there would be heated arguments. A most desirable team would be one that consists of people who are varied and equipped with differing skill sets. People who are able to complement one another, and work together are actually something that all teams should strive for. A highly motivated and bonded group would definitely outshine a group of over-achievers.
More drinking sessions anyone?? =p